Forgiveness?
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Some will say I had this coming, and I’d be hard pressed to argue really. Not much more to be said about that.
That Facebook bitch was certifiably crazy. I mean, she was truly like Basic Instinct stalkeriffic. In the end, both LC and I had to block her completely just to regain a sense of sanity and personal safety. Unfortunately, one of the many things she was not was a liar. She attacked me again on his profile on Friday. I’m sure she thought it was all very subtle… but it wasn’t. Still, to respect LC’s wishes, I took to a private conversation with her instead of rising to the public bait. I calmly explained that he had a need to keep personal drama off of his profile and I knew she cared about him so I was sure we could both make that work. And requested that she message me directly with anything that she might feel she needed to say. Apparently she felt she needed to tell me that he was coming on to her. In fact, she sent me several messages citing exactly what he had said. She then attempted to tell me how I deserved more, which was actually a bit comical.
I didn’t rise to the bait. I told her I didn’t think a caring friend should be attempting to sabotage him. She cited some more. I told her the conversation was over and she had said her piece and I had said mine. She sent me a scary message about how LC WILL be hers. Capitalization and all. It was lovely. I did not respond.
What I did do was to ask LC what the hell she was talking about. As it turns out he said all of those things. This month even. Told her she’s beautiful, asked if she ever comes to this area, told her we were about to break up. He said a lot of things about why, about what it didn’t mean, about how he didn’t realize he was doing anything wrong. Each justification made it sound worse and worse to my ears. He had been telling me he no longer sought dates or chatted up women. And here was clear proof in my mind that he did. In reality, he never would have met her and she was too far away to be a danger. But those things… he still said them.
So I was honest about Big, but I still did it. He was dishonest and did something similar. Not much difference. I got mine in the end. And honestly, I had not a whole lot of reason to be really upset.
But I can’t seem to let it go. All of the sudden, it’s like the fabric of who we were has shifted beneath me. When he walks in my door to pick me up, he doesn’t look the same. I feel awkward and uncomfortable. He feels terrible. We talk at each other and look past each other. And suddenly neither one of us knows how to fix it.
I am struggling because this reminds me of past lives. Past marriages and things I was never able to forgive are rearing their heads and reminding me. And yet, this man is not those men. He is different. He is his own man. And he may not hurt me the way they did. But he is stepping into territory that they did. And I don’t know if I can let go.
Gentle readers, I need your advice. When and how do you forgive? How do you know when to let go and charge forward instead of holding on and turning away? How do you release hurts and distrust to get back to a place of comfort and honesty again? Or don’t you?
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12.05.2022
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12.05.2022
Journée d'échange de pratique 6 mars 2024
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06.03.2024
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06.03.2024
Journée d'échange de pratiques 2022-23
Objectifs de la journée
• Proposer un temps pour échanger sur les pratiques autour de l’école dehors : dépasserles difficultés et partager les réussites
• Apporter des outils et des connaissances utiles à la pratique de l’école dehors
• Motiver et encourager pour la suite
• Créer un espace de rencontre et permettre la mise en réseau des enseignant·e·s
Programme
Accueil Halle de la Paillade
Trajet jusqu’au terrain : abécédaire et couleurs
Présentations : questionnaire mouvant, présentation de la journée et pause conviviale
Activités nature (ateliers tournants) :
Repas
Échange de pratiques (suite)
Retour en salle (école Roosvelt) : présentation et démonstration du site collaboratif wiki
Bilan et cercle de fin
Trajet jusqu’au terrain : abécédaire et couleurs
Présentations : questionnaire mouvant, présentation de la journée et pause conviviale
Activités nature (ateliers tournants) :
- - Cui-cui-je (ornithologie)
- - Construction d’une clé de
- - Lecture de paysage
Repas
Échange de pratiques (suite)
Retour en salle (école Roosvelt) : présentation et démonstration du site collaboratif wiki
Bilan et cercle de fin
début
01.02.2023 - 08:00
fin
01.02.2023 - 15:00
Fichier : CR_echangepratiques_010223.pdf
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Lieu
RDV Halle de la Paillade Montpellier - Terrain mosson
Journée de bilan 2022-23
Objectifs de la journée
Faire le bilan de l'année d'accompagnement- évaluer les objectifs fixés par les enseignantes
- évaluer les besoins exprimés en début d'accompagnement
- évaluer les objectifs du projet pour les EE
Faire marcher l'intelligence collective pour la suite du projet
- analyser le projet école dehors
- dégager des pistes d'action concrètes pour la suite
Programme
Rendez-vous à 8h45 pour un accueil thé/café
09h / MATIN avec les 5 enseignantes accompagnées cette année
• « Je me souviens » : se replonger dans l’année écoulée
• Évaluation des objectifs et des besoins, bilan de l’accompagnement
12h / Pause pique-nique – Auberge espagnole
13h / APRÈS-MIDI : avec tous ⋅ tes
• Cercle de présentation
• État des lieux du projet : 3 ans d’accompagnement à l’école dehors
• Analyse et réflexion collective : les freins et les leviers, perspectives et pistes d’actions pour la poursuite des projets d’école dehors
• Célébration : cercle de parole
Fin de la journée 16h00
09h / MATIN avec les 5 enseignantes accompagnées cette année
• « Je me souviens » : se replonger dans l’année écoulée
• Évaluation des objectifs et des besoins, bilan de l’accompagnement
12h / Pause pique-nique – Auberge espagnole
13h / APRÈS-MIDI : avec tous ⋅ tes
• Cercle de présentation
• État des lieux du projet : 3 ans d’accompagnement à l’école dehors
• Analyse et réflexion collective : les freins et les leviers, perspectives et pistes d’actions pour la poursuite des projets d’école dehors
• Célébration : cercle de parole
Fin de la journée 16h00
début
14.06.2023 - 07:00
fin
14.06.2023 - 14:00
Fichier : CR_bilan_140623.pdf
Télécharger
Lieu
Terrain des thermes Juvignac - source de la Valadière
Journée de lancement 2022-23
Objectifs de la journée
- être au clair sur le projet
- être outillées pour se lancer
Programme
Matin
Après-midi
- Présentation de la journée
- Rencontre et attentes "speed dating"
- Présentation du projet
- Séance type animée (+ échange)
Après-midi
- "Mon moment à moi" (+ échange)
- Jeu libre animé (+ échange et analyse)
- Informations :
- sécurité, hygiène, réglementation
- matériel et équipement
- rôle des parents
- communication
- ressources biblio
- sécurité, hygiène, réglementation
- point coordo
début
12.10.2022 - 07:00
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12.10.2022 - 14:00
Fichier : CR_Journeelancement_121022.pdf
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Lieu
RDV Halle de la Paillade Montpellier - Terrain des thermes Juvignac
Journée lancement 2023-2024
Objectifs de la journée
- Être au clair sur le projet
- Être outillées pour se lancer
Programme
- Des présentations (pour faire connaissance)
- Reconnaissances des terrains
- Présentation du projet école dehors, du contexte, des grandes étapes de l'année et de notre accompagnement
- Présentation de séances type d'école dehors
- Du concret : vivre les différents moments de la séance type et d'autres activités facile à mettre en place avec les élèves
- Des moments d'apport plus théorique (sur la sécurité/ hygiène / réglementation, le matériel à prévoir, l'implication des parents et la posture de l’adulte, la coordination du projet)
début
06.09.2023 - 07:00
fin
06.09.2023 - 14:00
Fichier : compte_rendu_journee_lancement_EcoleDehors_2023.pdf
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Lieu
Terrain des thermes Juvignac - source de la Valadière
Something fun!
Objectifs de la journée
Is Chivalry Dead or Perhaps Just Redefined?My Kindle Is Apparently a Dating Device
Turning Inner Geek into Geek Chic
Handling Hurt Feelings in Dating
How to Resolve Multilingual Dating
Internet Dating – Sadly. I’m A Bit Of An Expert
The Four Horsemen of a Relationship Apocalypse
Expectations: The Death of Love
How to Quit Mr. Wrong (Even If He’s Good in Bed)
Time for a non-alcoholic pick me up. Mollie over at Musings of a “Crazy Cat Lady” has quickly become just one of my favorite all around gals. She is sweet, and positive, and can even disagree with me gracefully. Which, truth be told, is hard to do because I’m a little stubborn sometimes. (Only a little!)
Anyway, she has graciously invited me to provide some advice to her and her readers regarding the wonderful wild and wacky world of online dating. So hop on over to Musings of a “Crazy Cat Lady” and check it out!
(Disclaimer: Mollie may love kitties but is not indeed actually crazy. At least, I don’t think she is…)
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08.05.2022
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08.05.2022
Why Spending More Time in the Bedroom Could Make You Smarter
Objectifs de la journée
More love, more smarts?
I didn’t make this up.
Wait, before you think this is a ploy to help men have make love more in their relationships, I didn’t make it up. I read it in an article on YourTango.com, and it applies to both men and women.
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The article is based on the sexual activities of rodents. The studies show this activity produces new neurons in the brain, and a part of the brain called the hippocampus, where long-term memories form, grow and thrive. Again, as much as I’d like to believe this, post it on our bedroom mirror for my wife to see, and share it with everyone to help out my fellow men! I am skeptical.
Could it be the opposite: that smart people just spend more time having sex? Here’s why I think that’s a strong possibility:
Smart people have better communication. One thing that leads to my wife and I being more intimate is the depth of our conversations. When we make time to talk more and are able to have deeper conversations, we are drawn closer to one another and encourages intimacy.
Smart people understand are perceptive. In marriage it is important that the needs of your spouse are met. My wife and I have learned this over 12-plus years of marriage. Smart people seek to understand their mate, and learn what they need in the relationship. The not-so-smart people have no clue, therefore they have a harder time meeting those needs.
Smart people tend to be in relationships with other smart people. Typically, the ability to have intelligent conversation is a huge draw in a partner. Therefore, a smart person more than likely will gravitate toward a person near their level of “smarts” when choosing a mate. That means two smart people in a relationship leads to more communication and more needs being met based on the previous two points.
There you have it, the connection to being smart and spending more time in the bedroom. As I said above I’m skeptical of answering the question “does spending more time in the bedroom make you smart?” by making assumptions about love and our intelligence based on the behavior of rodents, but my argument is no more scientific.
I will say, don’t make spending more time in the bedroom the focal point of your relationship. Instead make meeting the needs of your significant other the focal point. The other will take care of itself when needs are met, and you won’t care how smart you or your significant other is when that is working well.
If spending more time in the bedroom does make you smarter, who benefits the most, men or women?
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18.04.2022
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18.04.2022